Hating

I hate, sometimes, I hate when my friends think they can borrow my stuff all the time. Text me, "Can I borrow your boots?"  I'm too nice to say no, but it bothers me sometimes, so I always text back, "Why?" They say something like, "I've got this great outfit all planned out." And I'll say, "Fine." It's annoying sometimes. I don't like it, and I don't like that I don't like it. AAAAHHHH! Confusion!